Share Child Parental Controls with Multiple CareGivers

Share Child Parental Controls with Multiple CareGivers

Being a parent is more about how involved you are with your children every day and whether you are there to cater to their needs most of the time than about whether you are biologically related to them or not. 

Parenting

Becoming a parent is not that easy. It isn’t just about having a baby, it is about raising a human being, which is easier said than done. You don’t have to be a parent to know the challenges and hardships of parenting.

Once someone accepts the responsibility of looking after a child 24/7, they become the parent.

I’m not trying to guilt-trip working parents or make them feel like their babysitter is somehow more of a parent to their children than they are, no. What I am trying to simply imply is that they are somehow involved in the process though however indirectly. 

No matter what, you become a parent once you accept a child as yours, and even though parenting is not an easy job, if done right, in the long run, it will be one of the most rewarding things you’d ever have done.

Becoming A Parent

Being a parent and becoming one are two very different things. Becoming entails stripping yourself of everything you already know and relearning it in the context of this new role you’re stepping into.

That said, parents should not be the only ones expected to care for a child all round the clock as there are other people involved in the growth and nurture of a child. Even practically or psychologically, when you look at it, there are other important people involved in the formation of a child’s views and opinions.

Role of Relatives

Babysitters, uncles and aunts, friends of parents, definitely neighborhood children as well as parents’ cousins are just some of the people who can and sometimes do form highly important bonds with a toddler even though they do not have to neither are they expected to. 

When such bonds are formed, they completely alter the personality of the child and mostly positively since they now have a fun aunt or uncle to look up to for advice, seek guidance and play with when their parents are not around.

Not only does it make the child more sociable, less grumpy, and keeps them preoccupied with more periodic activities that would help with their psychophysiological development, but also takes a great deal of the brunt of everyday duties off parents’ shoulders.

The Cool Third Parent

There are a lot of topics that children often hesitate to talk about with their parents because somehow there is a certain level of uneasiness involved on part of the children, but these same topics, they can freely talk about with the cool aunts or uncles since they are less likely to get furious and ground or punish the child.

The advantage that parents have here is that their friends and siblings would let them know if there is something serious or harmful involved so they can team up and help the child.

Parental Controls and Substitute Parents

On some level, aunts and uncles can sense danger from farther away than parents can when it comes to digital life and the dangers of the cyber world. 

One way for parents to stay one step ahead of these dangers is by using a FamilyTime parental control app to monitor their children’s digital activity. 

Another way to remain vigilant and be warned of the cyber dangers is by sharing access with the aunts/uncles/grandparents or whoever the part-time caretakers of the child are. 

This way, the cool aunt would be able to let the children have a little more gaming time when she is in charge as well as allow her to let mommy know in case there is a serious threat to the safety or security of her children.

All thanks to the digitalized parental control apps like FamilyTime, available on Google Play and App Store for download.

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Connie Castro

Mother of three on personal journey of motherhood. Likes healthy living and features gluten-free recipes.

Avid learner. Enjoys arts/crafts, poetry, photography and music. Published a collection of poetry on Kindle called "Coming Up Roses."

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